My students were refusing to think and wanted me to give them all the answers to everything. They wanted to take the easy way out. I had several students come up to my desk after finishing their morning "Wake Up Your Brain" journal entries and ask, "What should I do next?" I just looked at them and said, "What do you think you should do?" They stared back blankly for a minute and I returned their stares. Finally they said, "Read the board...?" "Good idea." So they would go read the board and then come back. "So...what should I do?" "What do you think you should do?" "Seat work...?" "Good idea."
One of the assignments was to write their final copy of their planet summary paragraphs on a nice piece of lined paper. We have done this before - it was nothing new. It was listed under seatwork and had an arrow drawing down to our music stand holding the papers for them to write on. I had one student come up and say, "What should I do with that paper?" "Did you read the board?" "No..." "Read the board." Then several students came up and asked me "What should I put for 'title' on my writing paper?" "It isn't my paper...it is yours. What do you think?"
Ahhh! I was about to go crazy.....this was nothing new. Everything was clearly written on the board for them to read. And yet, they just didn't want to take the effort to read it. They wanted me to do that for them. Sorry, dears, that's not how it works....
I started seriously reflecting while they were gone to PE on what I have done to make them so dependent. Honestly, I do not think that I have spoon fed them or held their hand every step of the way during the year. I have been trying to consistently teach them responsibility. I direct them to where they can find answers for themselves. We have established great routines. We have clearly labeled posters in the room for each routine. We even have a poster labeled "What Do I Do Next" for when they are done with their seat work and need to figure out what to do. Nothing that we did that morning was out of the ordinary. And yet, they were feeling very dependent on me to tell them everything they should do right down to giving them a title for their paper! It was very frustrating and a little disheartening....Perhaps I have helped them become dependent on me but right now I just can't put my finger on what I have done to instill that in them. Perhaps I haven't done anything and it was just one of those days - it was Friday after all. I don't know....
Has anyone else experienced this with their students before? If so, did you find it was something you were doing? I certainly want to fix it if it is something I have done. They should not have been that dependent on me, especially this far into the year....